It seems to be a time honored tradition in the world of women to pass on words of wisdom in dating love marriage and children. This blog will only address the dating aspect...Enjoy.. Laugh.. Hell take cliff notes. Whatever the case I hope you take something from it.
Women make the common mistake of feeling to soon. Girl get over yourself, flirt have fun relish the fuzzy feeling but for god sakes don't invest yourself beyond that until he EARNS it.
Men aren't the enemy they are simply men, don't persecute one man for every subhuman you encountered in the past. Let go and embrace the idea HE IS JUST A MAN, no worse no better you'll find good ones you'll find bad.. Enjoy and learn from both.
Momma didn't lie when she said don't give the milk away for free...Why would someone pay for the cow when they have the choice of only paying for the times they use it?
Someone, somewhere will always have an opinion of the man your with, the man you didn't get or the one you should be leaving for. At the end of the day the only someone who matters is you. If you love him love him like hes never going to break your heart. Like you cant breath without him being the sole man in your life and goodbye will be under the sweetest of terms if it ever comes. You owe yourself at least one all time great romance, who's to say the man in your life right now isn't THAT guy.
Time is cruel and beautiful in the same moment, he'll let you down you'll disappoint him. You might even find days where you can't stand to be around each other. Until you wakeup to the day you know goodbye won't hurt. Fight for him, fight for you fight for everything that you two are and could be.
Once a cheater always a cheater, thats like saying once a child always a child. People change they mature they grow, allow for the change and accept maybe you aren't as holy as you once thought. Throwing stones is easy, just remember we all live in a glass house of some sort.
Live like a gypsy even for a short time in life. Get in the car and go without a destination in mind. You'll be so grateful for the things you saw and people you met . It will ground you and be a constant reminder the pastures aren't greener. Just a slightly different shade of good.
Never compromise, your heart your principals or choice of shoes, all three will carry you across the roughest paths life has to offer. So long as you know you made wise investments you'll survive the trip just fine and come out looking wonderful.
Don't settle for mediocre friendships, the women in my life I share my life blood with are just that blood. No more no less, they have shed their tears in my presence much as I have in theirs. We have been a rock or the pillow to land on.
The last word of advice I can leave you is scream every chance you can. Scream cause he made you mad, scream cause life is going by to fast or wont speed up. Scream how much you love all those in your heart. Scream for the injustices in the world. Mostly scream to be heard, the only people who are surrounded by those with deaf ears are the ones afraid to raise their voice. The only tragedy you can't overcome is the one where you were a doormat. No one likes or respect anywhere they clean their feet. Be more then that, your worth more.
