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A Self Love Spell

The Ethics of Love Spells Help, I need a Love Spell!! Sigh....this phrase will raise many a hair on us Witches. Too many people today seem to think that there is a "quick fix" for every situation life throws us. Truth is, there isn't. Not even for a Witch. Just as there are rules to live by in everyday life, there are rules to live by in spell casting. Placing a love spell on another person is morally wrong, and a Witch will not aid anyone in doing so. Why is it so wrong?? Well, it infringes upon another’s' right to free will. (This is the part where I picture a bunch of stupefied love struck zombies roaming around........not a pretty picture). See, love comes from within, and when another is forced to feel such an emotion, you are basically getting a shell of that person....the love given to the love spell caster, is empty, and void of the REAL emotion that WOULD be felt, if the love were given freely, and not by force. It has been my experience that the majority of those who request a love spell, are feeling insecure, or has a low self-esteem. We all go through these feelings at some time in our lives. But, snagging the most popular guy or gal in school, for example, won't help these feelings go away, many times, they only amplify these negative feelings. (Imagine this person doesn't call on time....how would that make an already insecure person feel??) So, giving a love spell to someone is also ethically wrong for the Witch, since, he or she isn't helping the seeker, but could, in fact, be harming the seeker! Remember, Witches also have a code of rules that they follow. Wiccan Witches follow the Rede...which says, "An' it harm none, do as thou wilt". Many NON Wiccan Witches also follow a set of rules that basically say the same thing. Whatever the tradition a Witch is part of....a Witch harms no one. Including, him or herself. Handing out a spell can, and does affect the Witch. It's called, Karma.....or, "whatever goes around, comes around". A Witch doesn't take this lightly, and spells aren't used as a means to get what we want, whenever we want it. Love is a very precious gift, and should a Witch help another to steal away that gift, you can bet that he or she will feel Karmas' repercussions. Imagine, for a moment, that a seeker of a love spell is given that love spell. They use it to force another’s will, thereby, stealing away the person’s gift of love....only to cause harm, not only to the castee....but to the intended receiver of their gift! And, what if, amidst all the torn off paper of the gift, the caster fails to see a third person.....their own bearer of a gift....their one TRUE love?? Suddenly, not one person is affected by this spell......but at least FIVE people have been affected!! The caster of the spell, the castee of the spell, the intended of the castee, the intended of the caster, and......the Witch. (That's ALOT of harm done!) Now, with all that negative stuff said about Love Spells.....there IS a way that a Love spell CAN be cast, without harming anyone, and without involving bad Karma. It is simple, really. Cast a love spell on YOURSELF.....not on another person! Loving yourself, ultimately works to allow others to feel love for you! It may not invite love from any one person...but, may allow you to pick and choose the one that IS right for you. Life is funny like that, once we are able to really love ourselves, and feel good about who we are, people tend to flock in our direction. Our inner beauty shines through like a welcoming beacon.....and, believe me, people respond!! And, you know what else? You'll be able to sleep good at night, knowing that you ARE loved, and that once you find your true love, it is REAL. It won't be a spell they love, you won't have a "shell" of a person....and you will know that you haven't committed the spiritual equivalent of rape, and invited bad Karma to rear its ugly head at you! As I said earlier, spells are not a "quick fix"....and, a love spell for yourself isn't an easy thing to do...it takes patience, practice, and perseverance to overcome the negative baggage we all carry with us. But, give yourself time, and it CAN be overcome. With that said, I have included with this article, a sample of a spell that anyone can do. It's more of a ritual than a spell because it takes more than one time to do it, and it takes a dedication to yourself. (See...even a love spell for oneself, is not actually a "spell"). ~~~ATTRACTION SPELL~~~ You will need: 1) A mirror, most any kind, other than compact 2) 2 candles, of any color---pink is a good choice, as it brings friendship and romance 3) yourself :) In a place that is comfortable for sitting a while, and fire safe, place the mirror with a candle on each side. Light the candles...turn down, or off, any artificial light. Now, sit down in front of the mirror, gaze at your reflection. Sit comfortably, and relaxed. Notice all your good qualities...focus on them...then say aloud how wonderful this feature (eyes, for ex.) is. Notice their shape, and color, speak of them aloud...do this with all your best features. Smile at yourself :) Tell yourself, how wonderful you are...state all the positive aspects of your personality, (your humor, your willingness to help others, etc) name all the beautiful traits, that make you special...speak of them aloud, and with confidence... (It may not be as easy as it sounds!) Now comes the really hard part....hopefully, with practice, and by doing the above things, this will be easier to do! ~~~Say these words~~ (or whatever suits YOU!) :) I am beautiful (or handsome) on the outside I am wonderful within I am special unto myself, So let the love come in! Negative thoughts, they vanish I now toss them out Negative feelings, be banished, To let my love shine out! Repeat this, at least 5 times per sitting. And do at least, once a day--you may reuse the candles, but PLEASE DO NOT blow them out! (It is an insult, to the air to fire elements) Use a snuffer, or. Wet your fingers, and pinch them out. As you get more used to doing this spell, you may repeat these words, or any words that YOU chose (spells are great, when made personal...maybe, in time, and with practice, you will want to change them, or maybe you'll want to do that right away. or, not at all. whatever YOU prefer) :) Also--to make an attraction charm, to wear, simply, find a chain, with a pendant that suits you, and drape over the mirror while doing your spell...or wear it, so it is in sight, as you do your spell. The charm gains strength, as you continue to work the spell. This spell works! In time---you will see a noticeable difference, in the number of people who approach you. I like to do this spell, before I go out, anywhere! (Much like putting on makeup in the morning...or, for you guys....showering and shaving!) :) Many blessings to you!!
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