I'm not to sure what I'm going to talk about here but I am giong to ramble. Have you ever noticed that sometimes people don't recall that their paretns no matter what love them? I mean really it could come down to them being the only ones who could help you. You shouldn't push them away it only hurts you and them in the long run. Though you may not see it right away it could harm you. This isn't true of all people but for some.
Maybe this is all because I am so close to my family. Even through all our differences and believe me whe have had a few. Some really really major ones. Through it all we were there for each other. I am only ranting about this because my friend is having issues with her son and it's hurtful to her.
I won't mention any names as it's not my right, I just wish I knew how to make things easier on her. The things he says are hurtful to her and she's a good mother. She has done things to protect him from many harms in life. He sees it at breaking a trust. However if for some reason at the age he happens to be I did things that would cause that trust to be crossed, then for my safety I would have hoped my parents would have. Yes I would have been mad and very pissed off. However through it all I'd have forgiven maybe not forgot but forgiven yes. I just think that if I was thought to be doing drugs and still in highschool that would be cause for a cross of child parent trust.
Don't you think up to a point trust is earned? Now if you're doing something to break that trust, either by behavior or words, it would be lost. I could be wrong but that's how I see it. Now to my friend I wish I could do more for you. I love you and you're a good mother. I just hope he sees what he is messing up.
Love
Stace
