SITTING HERE AT MY COMPUTOR DESK AND WONDERING WHY I AM ALONE IN LIFE AS WELL AS OTHERS. I READ A STARTLING STATISTIC AWHILE BACK THAT 50% OF THE PEOPLE LIVE IN THIS COUNTRY BY THEMSELVES. I KNEW THE DIVORCE RATE HERE IN THE U.S. WAS ABOUT THAT PERCENT BUT NEVER REALIZED HALF OF OUR POPULATION LIVES BY THEMSELVES LOL! GOOD SOURCE TOO FROM READERS DIGEST! I MAJORED IN PSYCHOLOGY NOT SOCIOLOGY BUT I WILL TAKE A STAB AT A FEW REASONS FOR THIS I SEE AND GET SOME FEEDBACK FROM MY FRIENDS HOPEFULLY. MAN IS A SO CALLED 'SOCIAL ANIMAL' RIGHT? WE NEED EACH OTHER TO BE COMPLETE AND WHOLE AND ESPECIALLY A SOUL MATE TO SHARE LIVE WITH RIGHT? LOTS OF RELATIONSHIPS I HAVE SEEN OVER THE YEARS RELATIONSHIPS ARE BASED ON CONVENIENCE AND THE PEOPLE NEVER REALLY GET TO KNOW ONE ANOTHER. HENCE THE HUGE DIVORCE RATE WE HAVE. CONVENIENT SEX, THEY LIVE CLOSE TO EACH OTHER, WENT TO THE SAME SCHOOLS PERHAPS, WORK TOGETHER, PARENTS WERE FRIENDS,ECT. WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO SITTING ON A PORCH SWING AND TALKING FOR HOURS WITH OUR SWEETHEARTS? NOBODY SEEMS TO KNOW HOW OR HAVE THE TIME TO COMMUNICATE AND GET TO KNOW THEIR PARTNERS LOL! TOO FAST PACED OF A WORLD WITH TOO MANY TOYS TO PLAY WITH TO REALLY CARE ABOUT OR WANT TO TAKE THE TIME TO KNOW ANOTHER? WHO SUFFERS THEN? MORALS SURE ARENT WHAT THEY USED TO BE ARE THEY? DO ANY OF YOU REMEMBER HOW GOOD IT FEELS TO MAKE LOVE TO SOMEONE INSTEAD OF HAVING JUST PLAIN OLD SEX? THIS DATING OR FRIEND SITE AS YOU WILL WE ARE SHARING IS A PERFECT EXAMPLE OF 'HOW THINGS ARE' RIGHT NOW! VERY IMPERSONAL RIGHT? HOW MANY OF THESE SO CALLED FRIENDS YOU ARE MAKING ON HERE WILL YOU EVER SEE? HOW MUCH TIME DO YOU GIVE PEOPLE TO REALLY LEARN WHO THEY ARE AND GET TO KNOW THEM? MOST OF US JUST CHECK OUT THE PICS AND MOVE ON AFTER MAKING A FEW COMMENTS OR RATING TIME AND TIME AGAIN LOL! WHO ARE THE LOSERS IN THIS IMPERSONAL WORLD WE ARE LIVING IN? WE ARE OF COURSE LOL! ANOTHER BIG REASON FOR OUR NATION BEING DIVIDED AS WE ARE IS LACK OF A SPIRITUAL ENTITY OF SOME SORT IN OUR LIVES. WE ARE SPRITUALLY LAZY AS A COUNTRY FOR SURE I BELIEVE! DO WE AS A PEOPLE HERE IN THE U.S. REALLY WANT TO LIVE BY OURSELVES OR WITH CONSTANT CHANGES OF 'FAMILY PEOPLE' IN OUR LIVES? IF NOT HOW DO WE GO ABOUT CHANGING THIS? DO WE JUST SAY THAT IS THE WAY 'THINGS' ARE AND DONT REALLY CARE ABOUT THE 'WHOLE' AND TRY AND MAKE THINGS BETTER FOR OURSELVES? I AM OPEN TO SUGGESTIONS FOR SURE LOL!
