If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
You are correct if a man wants you nothing will keep him away.....EXCEPT ....His pride, sence of loyalty, fear, stupid friends, family, and last but not least his ego!
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
A man will stay where ever he feels wanted and loved unless he has that somewhere else!
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
There is only one excuse for a mans behavior............A woman! Or he's just stupid!
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Your Intuition is not always right.............you couldve just broken the heart of a very good man!
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
If the relationship isn't meant to be then why are you still there?
Slower is better.
Slower isn't always controlable....sometimes you have to go with the speed of your heart!
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
Never live your life for anything except yourself and your children because no one is truly happy!
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
If a man mistreats you as his girlfriend that does not make him a bad friend, it makes him a crappy boyfriend, he could've just been the best friend that you ever lost!
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Never settle but always look at what you have cause if you feel like he's stringing you along he just might be......but he might also think the same thing about you, so try talking to him before you decide to leave him, cause you might be making a mistake! Remember COMUNICATION!!!!
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
No never stay if you think "it'll get better." but dont let them stay the same, try to help the person your with understand whats wrong and try to fix the problem, dont just sit there and think they will be able to do it on they're own! Humans are creatures of habit, it takes time to break them of the routines they are in! Just remember if you'll be mad in a year cause it didn't change, think of how mad you'll be if you leave him and in a year you see him again and someone else helped him with the change you wanted!
The only person you can control in a relstionship is you???????
Not true!!....Women MOST of the time control the relationship and don't even know it! Not to mention there are those women who know it, and use it with poor judgement, and wind up hurting some men alot! But don't take that the wrong way, there are some men who are the same exact way and control the relationship the wrong way!
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant!
Men with a bunch of children by a bunch of different women are not always at fault!! Some men are easily walked on and controlled and taken for granted, and unless you know the whole story or were there, don't let that fact persuede your feelings or judge them cause maybe they he was treated wrongly and he did try everything to make it work.......Women aren't always the perfect creatures they portray themselves to be! Your a woman you know what a woman is capable of!!! Besides what about the women with a bunch of children from a bunch of men what does that say about them??
Why would he treat you any differently?
Maybe because you don't walk on him like the last women did and you actually treat him with respect, and love him and talk to him like a human being don't get me wrong there are men who are total dirt bags that don't accept the responsibilities they brought on but don't think that all of them are total dirt bags until you know for sure! Every person is innocent til proven guilty remember!?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Yes always have your own friends, but remember there is always single friend/friends who have been jaded in the past and who don't want you to be with someone so they have someone to go out with, and will always degrade who your with to make single life seem so much better! And yes you should always have your own friends but you should also make friends that the two of you met together! You will always have friend you brought into the relatioship seperatly.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
Maintain boundries on how a guy treats you!.............. but maintain boundries on how you treat your guy
If something bothers you, speak up.
COMUNICATION is a relationship MUST!
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later!
Yeah that works both ways if a man lets you know everything about him you'll use it against him too so don't use each others past against each other what happended before you brought you together........Don't let it tear you apart!! Besides hiding things from someone is just like lying in a relationship and lies in a relationship is as bad as cheating!!!
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
NO you can't change anyones behavior, but you fell in love with that person they are, so you should be able to grow toghether in each others behavior! And why would you change what you fell in love with?
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
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Even if someone has more education or a better job you should never make them seem better than you man or woman!! But remember that a little ego boost to either person is always a good thing, but don't make them feel like it says like a quasi-god!
He is a man, nothing more nothing less
He is not just a man he is your man, there should never be anything more than that! But everything but your children should be less!!
Never let a man define who you are.
Never let anyone but YOU define who you are! You should shine no matter where you are esspecially when you are in love and have that person besides you not in front of or behind you!!!
Never borrow someone else's man
Never borrow someone elses man........Never let someone else borrow you from your man!
Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
You can never say that because he cheated with you he'd cheat on you!!!! Besides whats that say about you? He wasn't the only one who was cheating, you were there just as much as he was!!!
A man will treat you the way you allow him to treat you ?????
Not true cause some men try to treat women the way they were created "A woman was made from the rib of a man to be at his side not from the ankle of man to be at his feet!" but some women want to be treated like crap hence the saying "Nice guys finish last!' If he treats you like crap you shouldn't be there and if you stay thats your stupidity not just the man!
All men are NOT dogs.
But women treat them like they are cause thats how they see them!!
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
But also remember that if you cant compromise why should he!? It takes two to tango but one of you needs to lead the dance! And I'm not saying let the man lead cause alot of times the man doesnt know all the steps!!!
You need time to heal between relationships...........there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Yes you need time to heal but don't let that be a crutch to keep you out of reach to someone who isn't built like a body builder or as rich as Donald Trump! Remember the guy with the best body isn't always the best guy!! And as for your baggage you can never deal with every issue alone, sometimes the help of someone who cares about you will guide you through the issues that you have. There is no such thing as two whole individuals a whole consists of several parts not just one!!
Dating IS fun........But don't let the fact that he isn't Mr. Right think you can just kick him to the curb, cause he might think he just found his Mrs.Right! Please atleast try to think of his feelings too!
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder! If he loves you and your gone away from his side he will miss you no matter the distance! Men are insecure creatures no matter what they say! If your not readily available to him he's gonna worry cause he cares! If he's not readily available to a woman she'll think he's cheating!
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Thats like saying let the doctor without the full knowledge of the operation cut you open and try to heal you!!! If he doesn't give you everything you need!! Maybe its cuase you haven't told him what that is!! Relationships aren't a guessing game, don't rely on the fact that someone should know you cause you've been with them for 6 years! There are people who have been together for 30 years and still do not know exactly what thier partners exact needs are! Tell them and then if they can't do it help them, and then if they still can't do it its time to go!
Keep him in your radar but get to know others!!!! So what your saying is keep one foot out the door and ready to run if Mr. TOO SEXY happens to come along??? Thats like saying "Have a bowl of cereal but dont use the bowl!" Don't be ready to run away! Thats just dumb!
Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. And you might make another woman DESTROY a good man cause everything that was said is so negative towards men!
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them, It also takes a second to lose them so keep every moment precious to you!
