Have you ever held a grudge? I admit that I do hold them . Not to the point of trully hating someone - I evantually forgive and get over it. However once I feel I have been wronged in some way- there are no second chances. I forgive, move on, and do not look back. Character Flaw?? Perhaps,but it is just the way I am. This is me and and till now not nobody has been able to change this !!!!!!!!!!