I know just how you feel, the pain and emptiness is related to all aspects of your life. Having your heart broke assures us that we did indeed love. Trying to put things back together is very difficult it's like putting together a puzzle with out having all of the pieces. The ones missing are the hardest to define, was it yourself, your missing or the combination of the two of you. Is it that the soul is bruised or just died a little more this time? While feeling that you may never recover or you don't want to because you don't want to loose what little of them you have left.
I was scared of the emptiness and thought I would be alone if I did this, but it only made room for me to love me again. Only when you find yourself and love yourself can you begin to truly love others in your life with the passion you may only remember.
Surround yourself with friends and family that will let you be your natural self and let you heal in your own time.
I as always will be here for you as a friend should be, to listen, to talk or a hug at the end of a day. Call me any time you want even if you say nothing at all, I will be there so you're not alone.