I'm a professional cook by trade, just moved to VA from CA a few months ago so I'm still looking for work. I am in a polygamous relationship with my girl friend and I'm looking to branch out and have some fun. I'm into BDSM and other domination styles though I will only administer pain upon request. If your shy about it then I am willing to teach you. However if your not into this sort of thing then do not worry I am willing to be the kind of lover you require. As a friend I'm loyal, easy to get along with and strong in my beliefs. I'm a good listener and willing to go that extra mile to help you out. I've already met the women of my dreams and we live together; however, our relationship is open in the physical since, thus I allow her to see other men that she has a strong friendship with. So while I can't be that man just for you I can be there when you need me. I'm 6'4 210 lbs brown hair / eyes white pale some tattoos (only 3 small ones) no piercings glasses clean shaved