to be totally honest with all i am still married, my story... my husband left me for his old high school sweetheart who had cheated on him in school,and who cheated on her husband with my husband, and a week after he left he found out that he has cancer-mesothelioma drs gave him 9 months maybe less or maybe more, so we are not getting divorced cause it would be just a waste of money, dont know how long he has left, and he wanted me to find someone new to go thru life with so when he passes i have someone already in my life to help me thru that time in my life of losing him for a second time and never being able to see him again except in pictures.

i am a mother of 6 but 3 are step kids and all are grown and i have 3 grandchildern and one on the way and i just love it,i have 2 boys and 4 girls and grandkids 2 boy 1 girl and i love to spoil them a lot more than i should but thats a grandmas prerogative, im just a typical grandma