The DARAFAL Formula-7 Steps To Your Great Success In Life!
Spiritual Awakenings
The DARAFAL Formula-7 Steps To Your Great Success In Life! by Phil Brull
What do you really want in life? Think about it. Yes, you yeah, YOU can have what you really want! You are free to achieve any goal! You can do anything! Don't believe it? That's OK! Just try it out! The 7-step DARAFAL Formula works for many, and it also can work for YOU! Imagine for one moment living the life of your dreams! Hmm, isn't it beautiful? And the best thing is you can do it! YOU! And you don't have to wait! You can start right now! Here is DARAFAL, your 7-step key to success:
1. D - Decide what you want
This first step is vitally important. Why? Because you must identify what you WANT. We are so used to identify what we don't want that it may be unusual to decide what we want. But, what happens if we only say what we don't want? Well, our mind is a goal-seeking mechanism. The subconscious mind does all to create what we want. However, it can not distinguish between what we want and what we don't want. If you say "I don't want to be poor", the only thing your mind focuses on is the it-part, that means, your subconscious mind focuses on "be poor" and it says to itself, "OK, no problem, we can do that for you". And then you will be involved in actions making you poor. That's why it is so important to focus on what you want. If you say "I am rich" then your mind focuses on "rich" and again your subconscious mind says "OK, no problem, we can do "rich" for you" and you will be inspired to take actions that will make you rich. So, this first step is really important! Rather than to decide what you don't want, decide consciously what you do want
2. A - accept that this is possible for you Once you decide what you want to create in your life, you may think "You never gonna do that", or "That's impossible for you. You are not one of those successful people", or "Stop dreaming! Come back to reality! This is not for you!", and so on and so on and so on. These thoughts are absolutely normal. Accept them as a natural defense mechanism. But why defend against success? The change is only for the best, so why do not allow this? What you are going to change is, in fact, a pattern of behavior. A part of your mind is responsible to keep this pattern working in order to protect you. However, that this pattern may have "protected" you from growing and kept you right where you are now. This pattern may have been useful earlier in life to protect you from threats in your environment. Your mind may still be trying to protect you, and so does what it can so that those changes don't happen. But the old threats are no longer here, and the old "guardian" patterns are no longer useful. This is "self-sabotage", and represents the hardest part of the process of change. It is here where a lot of people stop changing because they believe these old pattern are right. KEEP IT GOING! Be aware of the fact that you can make those changes and that YOU DESERVE THEM! You deserve your new and much better life, so don't stop now! Continue on your new way!
3. R - Relieve all past limitations
Maybe you are aware of the thoughts and feelings that keep you away from changing. If you identified them, say to yourself, loud and clear: "I relieve" or "I release", and then fill in the thoughts and feelings that keep you back from changing. This is a very powerful technique and you will be surprised by its effectiveness. If you don't know exactly what thoughts and feelings keep you back from moving forward, then I suggest that on a regular basis that you relax, and when really relaxed, to speak to all aspects of your mind and to tell them to relieve all past limitations. Trust yourself; it works when you do it on a regular basis.
4. A - Affirm your goals
The key to success is the combination of affirmation, visualization and feelings. It is a proven fact that you attract what you believe. If you would like to know what your real beliefs are then look at your life and look at your body. Both reflect 100% your inner attitude. That means that your life reflects your thoughts and feelings. Ergo, if you change your thoughts and feelings, then you can create consciously exactly the life you would like to have.
One very important detail here: You are not the victim of others! It often sounds strange for the first time, and that's OK. You may say, "Of course I am! He did this to me", or "Because of her action I suffer now", or "Because this and because that, I am now suffering and feeling bad!"
April fool! This is one of the hardest pills to swallow. You created being a victim. You certainly didn't do that on purpose. No one creates his problems on purpose. You did it unconsciously because all of the inner values you accepted during your life. But, are those values really yours? Or did you accept them blind from an authority? The values of your parents, or your teachers or friends don't have to be your values. Maybe you've lived a life following others' ideas. But if those ideas are not yours then they are empty and powerless. Only if an idea becomes a vision is it powerful enough to change your life! Therefore it is important to act rather than react. If you give others the power to influence your feelings then you give them power over your life. You alone have the right to decide which feelings you allow in your life and which not. I know, this is really a hard thing to accept. But if you want to change your life for the best, you must work on this. But I am going to sweeten the pill for you. If you work with your affirmations, visualizations and feelings on a regular basis, you will see changes in your life very quickly! That gives you the power to continue your journey! To create powerful affirmations you need to know what you want. If you want to be more self-confident, a possible affirmation might be, "I choose to make it easy for me to be self-confident". If you want to be thin then a possible affirmation would be," I choose to achieve quickly and easily my perfect weight" By the way, it would be better not to say that you want to lose weight, because our mind is triggered to find what we have lost. Imagine you lost your car keys. What do you want to do? You want to find them, to get them back. Perhaps "I choose to live at a healthy weight" would work for you instead.
5. F - Feel your intention already achieved The same time you say your affirmation, visualize it! See yourself in a situation where you are self-confident or see yourself in the body you want to have. But, always see yourself from the first person perspective, that means, don't see yourself entirely as another would see you, as if you're watching yourself in a movie. You are not the spectator, you are the actor, so visualize the act that comes from that affirmation from your own eyes. Feel the feelings you want to have. Feel how good it feels! Feel how good it feels to be self-confident. Feel how good it feels to have the perfect body! Combine all these 3 sensations (affirmations, visualizations and feelings) and do it on a regular basis. Repetition, repetition, and repetition! This is one of the keys to success! Do it every day in the morning when you awake and in the evening before you fall asleep. Repetition is the way to mastery.
6. A - Action!
Now it is time to take action. That does not mean to do something only for doing it. No, I mean, take inspired action. Your subconscious mind leads you to the right opportunity. Once you feel an inner urge to do something, then act at once. Even if you do not understand why, just do it. Follow your intention. You need to take action to achieve your goals, and your subconscious mind will show you the right ones to take! Trust yourself! If you feel that you have to see a special web site, just do it; if you feel you should have a look at a special book, just do it. Your subconscious mind will bring you in touch with the very best opportunities for you
7. L - Let it go
Now it is time to release your intention. Give it to the universe and let your subconscious mind attract the very best for you. This is a very important step. If you think all the time about your intention, it can't develop itself. Letting it go means letting it grow. Trust your subconscious mind and don't stay attached to your intention. When you hold it, it just can't develop. So, let it go and trust you! Everyone is different, has a different history, different values and different goals. Therefore, one may achieve his goals faster than another, but, anyone can achieve his goals with the right mindset. There is no doubt about it! That means you can do it, too!
Everyone is different, has a different history, different values and different goals. Therefore, one may achieve his goals faster than another, but, anyone can achieve his goals with the right mindset. There is no doubt about it! That means you can do it, too! To make it even easier to overcome self-sabotage and to influence your subconscious mind, I put together valuable tools on my web site, www.101realsuccess.com. Each one of them has the ability to help you change your life! But because everyone is different from others, one tool may work better for person A and another tool will be better for person B. Check them out, and if you feel that a tool could be perfect for you cool! If not, stay motivated. You will find your right tool at the right moment in time!
Article copyright 2005 Phil Brull. Phil Brull lives in Belgium and works in the field of personal development and spiritual growth. Find hikm online at www.101realsuccess.com. Phil strongly believes that anyone has the internal power to achieve every single dream and has dedicated his life to help others doing this, too. He is also involved in the ancient Polynesian wisdom known as Huna, as well as in many powerful life-changing techniques. Please feel free to pass this article on to your friends. Think of it as a shareware article. Thanks, Phil.
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