I am an out and proud professional, independent, and focused woman. I don't base my worth or happiness on whether I am single or with someone. I view my self as a whole woman who can achieve anything on my own but have reached the point in life where I would like to build something with someone else. I will be most attracted to a happy whole woman who believes that a relationship is made up of two independent people who can rely on each other but not collapse into each other. I value and volunteer in the gay community but don’t believe in being insular. I recently volunteered from the Gay Games and it was simply an amazing experience for me. I value all the relationships in my life and am very close to my family. My closest friend is an out and fabulous gay man. I believe the value of a person is measured by how she treats the people around her much more than the amount of money she has in the bank. Will answer any questions...just ask!