Over the last several years, my sex drive has stayed the same, and perhaps even increased. My wife's, on the other hand, seems to have evaporated. It's birthdays and anniversaries, now! I love her dearly, but my biological/physiological needs are simply not in sync with her.

If you're a lady in the exact mirror-image situation, I'd love to connect with you, and if things work out, make it a regular thing. I can manage the logistics of where, how, and appropriate cover stories. It would be nice if there was a connection between us, rather than an anonymous, sweaty encounter. Please be mature, over 40, and clearly understand that this will end, and we will both need to let go gracefully, and get back to our respective lives with everyone none the wiser.

I don't need to say it, but for the record: discretion expected and assured.