I'm a divorced mom of 4. If you are not running away screaming, then I'm surprised! hehe! Not looking for a husband or a dad for the kids, they already have one! I'm confident in who I am but am also shy, I'm short but I can't help it. I'm thick, curvy or whatever you want to call it. If you don't like it, that's OK with me. Just checking things out here & trying to break from my shyness!