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Six Years on fubar ·
My name is Chris. I am a 32 yr old Dominant man looking for the right submissive female to share my D/s interests with. I'm a single father of 2 beautiful daughters that are my world. I have many interest but on a site like this, people are looking for strange, weird, or out of the ordinary kind of people. Who wants to meet someone thats just like everyone else?
Some of my favorite quotes..
There was no reality to pain when it left one, though while it held one fast all other realities faded.I'm not asking you to understand. I'm not asking you to like it. I'm not even asking you to think about it, but I do expect you to respect my decision for my own lifestyle. I am a loving, caring, nurturing Dom. Not a sadistic person. I live with the belief that giving ones self without limitation to another person is the greatest gift that can be given or received. It is to be loved and cherished not used and abused.
We tend to think of the erotic as an easy, tantalizing sexual arousal. I speak of the erotic as the deepest life force, a force which moves us toward living in a fundamental way.
Submission without domination is when you keep doing what he wants even after he keeps insisting he doesn't want it. Domination without submission is when he keeps telling you to do something and you keep telling him to fuck off.
Ordinary life does not interest me. I seek only the high moments. I am in accord with the surrealists, searching for the marvelous.
Feelings that originate in the human genitalia are among the most powerful forces on earth. They have a complex relationship with the feelings that stem from the human heart; at various times in competition or in harmony... One of the supreme goals of spiritual work is to harness the sexual urges in service to the heart's wisdom.
Thou art to me a delicious torment
To be sensual, I think, is to respect and rejoice in the force of life, of life itself and so to be present in all that one does, from the effort of loving to the breaking of bread.
A riding crop and a blindfold doesn't make it BDSM. There is a big difference between being kinky and being in the scene. It's not a sexual thing to me, it's a very spiritual thing.
Intimacy is based on shared vulnerability...nothing deepens intimacy like the experiences that we share when we feel flayed, with our skins off, scared and vulnerable, and our partner is there with us, willing to share in the scary stuff
The slave escapes her bonds to find a stronger set of chains.
I’ve always been into it in fantasy going way back, and in practice taking what I could, playing around the edges of vanilla relationships. What I’ve come to realize about myself is that I cannot be happy without a strong D/s, s/m element in my lover. I feed to deeply with it for me to try to patch together a relationship, no matter how loving, without having it. So, realizing that I got involved. Started on a path to become the kind of man who can be trusted to Top a woman cleanly and with passion, and tried to find partners for whom my roles, fantasies, my dominant and sadistic nature is not an undesirable or merely tolerated inconvenience, but an asset, something prized and sought.
My interest above anything else is my children. As you may or may not have noticed, I am also into the B.D.S.M. lifestyle. There are many aspects that I enjoy, but we can delve deeper into my darker side per your request.
I like camping, hiking, and occasionally going out to a bar or club. I also like going to the movies. I enjoy dancing and have patented a dance I call "the fat boi wiggle" I like spending time with friends and look forward to making new ones. I know exactly what I want and although I am shy at first I usually have no problem getting it. Don't let the shy side fool you, it's part of my charm.
My favorite music is Classical. I know I know I look like a biker wanna be and I like classical. I like all music really anything with a beat. I was raised on music with my parents being musicians. My mom has been writing songs since she was 16 if that tells you how long ive been around it. Besides classical I like music like Godsmack,Disturbed and bands like that. I know its 2 different extremes but I love music.
Any man can stand over a submissive and demand her to kneel....but, not any man can stand over one and without demand, she kneels freely.
She needs a Man that is so confident and comfortable within His own person....that He does not have to take control of a woman to realize His own self worth....the kind of Man that embraces this submissive allowing her the room to breath....to step back and look within herself ....giving her the time to come to her own conclusions instead of enforcing His own upon her.
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