What can I say? There's a lot to say about me. Some awesome, good and then not so great. David {slopoke10} has been a dear friend of mine the 3 times I was on fubar. Left and re came back and started over. I have known him for five years and we have had the most in-depth conversations here. Finally, July 19th, 2020 I am Fu Married to him. It's been a long journey and so many stepping stones have been overcome and I know many more. Summer 2021 is when I was supposed to go out there but so many things have happened. Covid-19 hitting globally. My Fu Hubby having open heart surgery in life and then he got Covid, the delta strain version as he was vaccinated. So, to make a long story short the plan is to go out there in May of 2022. Things happen for a reason they say but I know in the end my alien and I will be together.

UPDATE: Sadly, I never did get to meet David as he passed away on May 29th, 2022. He did try to get out to see me but sometimes things happen for a reason. I don't know why or how. Just love the people you do while you can. Time is too short.


If you really get to know me, I am blunt, funny, and loyal to those I consider close friends. I am the same in life as I am here. Very few are in my inner circle. I can count the number of people I have let in close and that's under 10. I do not trust easily and for very good reasons due to my life experiences. If I trust you and let you in it's because I get the sense you are a decent person. If you act disloyal in any way or burn me..I shut the door in your face forever because I am not one to allow myself to be stabbed in the back again. I learned those lessons a long time ago. Sadly, in the military was one of those times. Not all men who are in the military are honorable. There are many great men but sadly I had the misfortune of experiencing the latter.


I am soft, gentle, tender, but I am also made of steel. I don't put up bullshit and won't accept it. I know how to joke around and my good friends know how to do it but there are some guys on here that will try to lead you around in circles. Nope won't happen with me. I wasn't born yesterday!


My fu family is the best I have on here. Very good folk who are down to earth and will help you out if they can on here and will just listen to you as a friend if you need to talk. I thank each and every one of you in my fu family for being who you are. I am glad to have met you and hope for many more years of friendship.



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