I'm a HUGE RAIDERS FAN, and I don't talk shit about (most) other teams! Raised in Chicago and moved to BFE town in S. Oregon. Now I'm in a good sized college town- it's not home, but it's ok. I love going back to the mid-west to visit family. Growing up there I had to be able to joke around with everyone, especially cause I was one of the only white people at school and my name is B.J. So, that being said I AM A REAL SMARTASS and I'm fluent in sarcasm! If I come across rude, chances are I'm JOKING, which I do A LOT! I like to make people smile or laugh and I'm pretty good at it too! I'm not on this site trying to be a dick, I don't try to be anyway(usually)! If I were wanting drama in my life I would stick to Facebook, I enjoy the drama free set-up on here! I'm point blank honest and don't feel the need to impress anyone by lying, I'm not on this Earth to attempt to make anybody like me! Those who choose to interact will probably see that I'm laid-back and not trying to make enemies out of people I will most likely NEVER see in person. Whether someone likes me or not doesn't keep me up at night!! As long as my family (and not even all of them matter) and I myself are good with me then I'm good!! I don't see the point in trying to sugar-coating anything! Basically I'm not the friend to ask questions in which you EXPECT the answer to play into your favor when you know deep down you don't want the honest answer. I might not have any degrees, but I'm not stupid!!! I'm not intimidated by intelligent or educated people and on the flip-side of that coin I can't deal with ignorant or straight-up stupid people for very long periods of time. I'm NOT political. religious, or politically correct!! Some people think this is a matching making site, not sure what to think about that! I'm single and if I meet a lady on here cool, and if not that's cool as well. Not counting on it, but I'm not opposed to it either!