[♥ About Me ♥]

Hello fellow pixelated people. And yes, until I actually meet you, you are but a pixel within the internetial underground. Let me begin by saying, I like to make up words and blog about things on my mind, so if you don’t like it, that’s okay… You don’t have to like it. Not everyone will agree with things I say, and I accept that. That’s what makes us individuals.

[♥ The Basics ♥]

My name is Carol, and I am a 41 year old divorced mommy to four wonderful, extremely intelligent, children. I’ve been a computer programmer for eighteen years, and web designer for ten. I recently graduated with my Masters of Science (MSIS) degree in Software Engineering Management and a GPA of 3.917 (damn that one “B”). Now that I'm finished, I'm contemplating my next plan of action. I used to be a Girl Scout Troop Leader, until I finally figured out that the Girl Scouts don’t give a crap about their girls unless they are greatly contributing to the executives pockets. That’s not my idea of what the Girl Scouts should be, and therefore, decided it wasn’t my cup of tea.

As far as heritage goes, I am Cherokee Indian, English, Irish, German, and Norwegian. I suppose that makes me a Cheroglish Irigerwegian.

Obviously, I love computers. If needed, I’m not sure that I could live without one, unlike a telephone, I could definitely live without that and only really use for emergencies. I love playing pool (billiards), tossing darts, fishing, and camping. I love books written by Stephen King. I like to watch shows like CSI, Law & Order, NCIS, Monk, Psyche, Forensic Files, Charmed, etc. Also, I like playing the flute, drawing, writing, and designing websites. My favorite foods are sushi, pasta, steak & Japanese food. I also like to go to dinner theaters like Medieval Times, Arabian Nights, and Dixie Stampede. Too bad Dixie Stampede is gone, I liked that place. I love things like Dream Catchers, wolves, white tigers, horses, etc.

[♥ My Children ♥]

Cody Cameron: 13 years old, and in the 8th grade. He loves the computer, the Internet, and playing all kinds of computer, x-box, DS, play station, and more kind of games. He also likes Naruto, his iPod Touch, and his Nintendo DS. He’s a complete sweetheart as far as boys go. 99% of the time, he will do anything I ask, because he likes to help mommy.

Dominique Ty: 12 years old, and in the 7th grade. She loves to cook and help out with her baby brother. I don’t know what I’d do without her, she helps me so much, and not because I make her! She’s such a sweetheart. She loves her iPod Touch and Nintendo DS and surfing the web, and absolutely adores and misses her cousins, who moved to New York.

Cheyenne Nicole: 9 years old and in the 4th grade. She’s in the gifted program and loves it. They teach her to do all sorts of neat things she doesn’t get to do in regular class. She too, loves her Nintendo DS, her Touch-screen Multimedia player, and the Internet. She also loves to have sleep-over's and is miss social butterfly.

Joseph Daniel: 1 year old, and a complete mommy’s boy so far. He loves to watch the same shows mommy and grandma watch. He’ll only watch cartoons on rare occasion. He loves his swing, and a few select toys. Mostly, he likes to sit on my lap and watch everything I do. He likes to stand up when you hold his hands and dance to music or when Cheyenne sings.

Lisa Brittany: 8 years old. She's actually my brother's daughter, but I'm taking care of her for the moment. She's just like Cheyenne and if they had the same color hair, I'd say they were twins in every way.

[♥ Our Pets ♥]

Currently, in our house, we have two dogs, two cats, a dove, a guinea pig, and a hamster. We had a bunny named Snow Pudding, but he passed into the Great Bunny Garden in the sky.

Ginger: 4 year old female Rottweiler. (She went to live on a big farm where she can run and play all day.

Garo: Believed to be about 2 years old, red haired male doggy. He's one the best dogs we've ever had. Extremely well mannered and loves everyone, including all kinds of other animals.

Cujo: She's actually my brother's black lab. She's getting up in age and a little persnickety at times, but she's a great doggie and gets along with everyone.

Sebastian: Red/White male kitty, born on 7/20/2007, we believe him to be a Norwegian Forest Cat. If he's not, he looks exactly like one. He got out on Memorial day by accident, and we haven't seen him since.



My Guardian Angel!

[♥ My views (rules) on Relationships ♥]

Thou shall not cheat, else thou shalt be castrated with a butter knife!
I will NOT be your backup! If you have a wife/girlfriend, stay away! If you're married/taken we can be no more than friends only!!!!
Once in a relationship, my intuition guides me. Thus far, it's NEVER been wrong.
If I was in a relationship with you and it ended because you treated me bad. Then NO, we can't be friends. Friends would not mistreat friends.
If he cheated WITH you, he'll cheat ON you!
Apathy is the beginning of the end.
Don't be a bore. Have some kind of hobby or something. Show ambition!!!!
I like nice guys, but I don't like doormats. Express yourself and have your own opinion! Just don't be a jerk.
Do NOT say you love me if you never MET me.
I'm a keeper, if you fuck it up, sorry for your luck. I've given too many 2nd chances, and not likely to give any more.
Do you have children that don't live with you? Do you pay your child support? Also, do you MAKE the time to be with them without excuses? {Work and/or living in another state, is NOT an excuse!} If you're behind on child support, you WILL NOT be in front of me.
You need to be able to take care of yourself. I already have kids, I don't need my man being one also. Unless you're a kid at heart. That's a good thing.
Do you have any problems such as anger management issues, or severe depression, or anything else that is easily addressed? If so, you best be addressing it. I want nothing to do with anyone who refuses to take care of themselves. Take your meds, see your doc, whatever you need to do.
You don't need to be rich, or make a lot of money, but if we're to be together, you will help contribute.

[♥ The Perfect Guy? ♥]

Honest - Speaks for itself.
Supportive
Funny
Caring
Sensitive
Loving
Ambitious
Handsome (inside and out)
Financially Stable - He doesn't have to be rich, just responsible
Fun
Independent
Cuddly
Good to his mother
Humble



LOVE starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.
Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you!
Good friends are hard to find, harder to keep, and impossible to forget!
Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them.
Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end!