26 M from East Windsor CT looking for a woman with similar interests to be friends or more with.

I haven't had sex since my ex dumped me which was 8 years ago.

I'm not the type who enjoys going to clubs or bars so I have trouble finding women. I'm also afraid of going out and trying to hookup with someone since I don't have much experience I'm not sure I would be able to fully pleasure her.

So if theres anyone local who would be willing to help me out that would be really cool. Doesn't have to lead to any kind of serious relation ship if thats not what you looking for. I'm look for anything really I just need something so I don't feel as loserish.