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FOR ALL OF THOSE WHO THINK THE WORLD REVOLVES AROUND THEM.  THINK AGAIN!!!

I have a handfull of true friends here on this site.  I am here for them when I can.  But, when life comes in and hands me a bunch of shit.  I need to deal with what has been handed to me first, before I can take on more.

I know that when I am going through anything and I need some support I can call on my true friends.  But, I also understand that my friends have there lives and there own things that they have to deal with.  I may not talk to them everyday.  It may go 2 to 3 weeks before I talk to them.  If I do not hear from them, I am always praying for them, and that all will be well with them and there families.  They are not the center of my universe.

The center of my universe is my family and myself.  I come first before anybody.  Call me selfish or what ever you want to call it.  Me and mine are number 1.

I can only do what I am able to do for my friends.  I would hope that they understand and accept me for who I am.  As I see it, true friends are there for you no matter what.  And if they can not be there for you when you are going through something, know that there thoughts and prayers are with you, until they are able to be there for you.

I hope that what I have written is understanding and helpful to some, that wonder at times where I am comming from.  I am pretty much an open book and can be read well.  But, other times I close the pages to where no one can read me.  Please know that these are my thoughts and it is just me Living Life on Lifes Terms!

If anybody has any questions or concerns please PM and I will try to answer them the best that I can.

Best wishes to all!

Hugggggggsssss!

While I have been away a lot has happened.  I have moved and am now working.

My daughter turned 18 and has decided to live with her Uncle.  I am waiting for her to Graduate from High School.

My son turned 16 and is looking at driving soon.  He is enjoying his summer at the pool swimming and training for this seasons meets.

Things with me have been going OK.  For the ones that I have been in touch with, I thank you for being here for me and supporting me in this time when I have needed you.

If anybody needs to get a hold of you please contact my number one family member and he will try to let you know what is happeing with me.  I speak with him almost every day.

I am wishing that you all have a wonderful rest of the summer and please stay safe.  Please take care of yourselves and of the families.

God Bless!

Tia!

As some of you already know, I am going through alot of personal problems. I am in the process of getting a divorce and working on myself. I will be off of Fubar for awhile. I will be moving to New York, where I can get a job and also start a new life for me and my children. Since I am making this big move from PA to NY, I have alot that needs to be taken care of. As many of you know, the last couple of weeks has not been good for me. I thank each and everyone of you for your support, bright spirits and words of wisdom during my time of dispair and troubles. You all will be in my heart and I will be taking you with me while I start this new journey in my life. I do not know when I will be able to come back. There are a few on here that I will be in contact with while I am taking care of everyting that needs to be done. If anybody has any questions about me or to see how I am doing you can contact the top 4 in my family (you know who you are) and they can let you know how things are with me and the kids. I hope to back here with all of you again really soon. But, while I am away taking care of myself, please do not worrie too much about me, I will be O.K. Please all be safe and hope that all is well with you and yours. Have a very Happy New Years. Let 2008 go out with a bang and bring in 2009 like you never have before. I wish the brightest new year for each and every one of you. Thank you for everything. Tia P.S. Tonight will be my last night on.